Thanks for checking out this page on Pursuing Godly Manhood. For a short season I attempted to juggle two blogs at the same time… this one (i.e., the Journal) and one focused specifically on ministering to men (Pursuing Godly Manhood). While I still have a great passion for helping men grow in their faith in every sphere of their lives, I have realized that I just can’t run two blogs at the same time. Therefore, I have consolidated everything at this blog (i.e., the Journal).
Here’s a little information about this page…
- Pursuing – Striving to gain; seeking to attain or accomplish; carrying on; continuing
- Godly – Pious; devout; characterizing a Godward attitude; doing that which pleases God; indicating reverence manifested in actions
- Manhood – No one seems to know! Well, that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but it’s not far from the truth. My desire with this page is to help move us all forward in coming to a better understanding of such an important subject as “manhood.”

Why Focus on Manhood?
While I serve my present ministry appointment in a variety of ways (related to discipleship), ministering to men has been a special focus and passion of mine for over a decade now. I can still remember when the light bulb went off for me regarding the importance of ministering specifically to men. The avalanche of statistics as well as my own ministerial observations began to sink in. I finally realized what I had read dozens of times was actually true. My little epiphany could best be summarized by the words that I once heard pastor and writer, Tony Evans, preach…
- As the man goes, so goes the family
- As the family goes, so goes the church
- As the church goes, so goes the community
- As the community goes, so goes the city
- As the city goes, so goes the state, then nation, and then the world
Of course, nothing is ever that simple. However, virtually every statistic I’ve come across – secular and Christian – has stressed that the positive influence of a man in the home is non-negotiable for health and vitality in that home, as well as for society. Therefore, I came to embrace the wisdom of, as well as to put into practice, an intentional focus on ministering to men. Additionally, as a father of three sons, I also realized that the best time to influence men is before they’re men… that is… when they’re still young men and boys.
The purpose this page is to help men become all that God has created, redeemed, and called them to be in every sphere of their lives. It ought to go without saying, though I dare not go without saying it, that this is not a “self-help” blog. My fundamental premise is that no man, woman, or child can become godly until they first respond in faith to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Only then can God’s Spirit and Word renew minds, renovate hearts, and transform lives.
My emphasis for this page is pretty wide. I will focus on the general issues of godly manhood, marriage, fatherhood, raising sons and daughters, workplace, calling, vocation, relationships, worldview, character, leadership and witness. Those are broad and far-reaching themes to be sure, but I believe that those areas either relate to the spheres of life that influence us or those spheres where we have opportunity to influence others for Christ and his Kingdom.
Let me finish up with this “4 Sakes Prayer” that I found at the end of Jack Graham’s book, A Man of God:
For the sake of the Kingdom,
For the sake of my family,
For the sake of God’s Church,
And for the sake of our nation,
I will become a man of God.
Grace and Truth,
Dale Tedder
(October 1, 2011)
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Below are a few articles, reviews, sermons, posts, etc., that I have written on the subject of pursuing godly manhood. The topics range from what it means to be a godly man, a godly husband and father, biblical perspective on work, leadership, witness, and more. I hope that you’ll take the time to check some of these out and that God will use some of what you find to bless you.
Blessings,
Dale
Ministry to Men
- Why We Need a Ministry to Men
- Ministry to Men: Some Reflections, Part 1
- Ministry to Men: Some Reflections, Part 2
- Ministry to Men: Some Reflections, Part 3
- Men’s Discipleship at Southside
- The History of Southside Men
- Small Groups and the Primacy of God’s Word
- Leave No Man Behind
- Living for the Next Generation
- Tedder’s Top Ten Men’s Ministries
- The Ministry of Encouragement
- Kingdom Discipleship: Faith for Every Sphere of Life, Part 1
- Kingdom Discipleship: Faith for Every Sphere of Life, Part 2
- Kingdom Discipleship: Faith for Every Sphere of Life, Part 3
- Being Salt: Part 1 (A Study of Kingdom Discipleship)
- Being Salt: Part 2 (A Study of Kingdom Discipleship)
- Being Salt: Part 3 (A Study of Kingdom Discipleship)
- Being Salt: Part 4 (A Study of Kingdom Discipleship)
- Discipleship is Hard, Part 1
- Discipleship Is Hard, Part 2
- Scripture-Saturated Disciples
Wisdom for Godly Manhood
- 12 Point Profile of a Holy Man (May 22, 2012)
- Every Sphere of a Man’s Life (May 12, 2012)
- Men Called to Live the Risen Life, Part 3 (February 14, 2012)
- What is a Real Man? (February 4, 2012)
- Men Called to Live the Risen Life, Part 2 (January 13, 2012)
- The Heart of the Matter (A Devotion for Men) (December 18, 2011)
- Three Questions for Men (December 17, 2011)
- Prayer-Helps for Men (December 16, 2011)
- Today Matters (December 15, 2011)
- Encouragement for Men (December 14, 2011)
- Money, Sex, and Power (December 13, 2011)
- Godly Men Guard the Truth (November-27-11)
- Are You Striving for Mediocrity? (November 26)
- Accountable Relationships (November 25, 2011)
- What Does Success Mean to You? (November 4, 2011)
- Living the Risen Life, Part 1 (November 3, 2011)
- The Gift of Encouragement (October 21, 2011)
- Lordship, Discipleship, and Manhood (October 20, 2011)
- Tony Evans on Biblical Manhood, Part 1 (October 4, 2011)
- Every Man, God’s Man (October 3, 2011)
- The Upright Man (October 3, 2011)
- The Godly Man and God’s Word (October 2, 2011)
- Unconscious Competence (June 11, 2012)
- Faithful Discipleship
- Sin’s Seductiveness
- Real Power Walking
- Are You A Double-Minded Man?
- My New Hero, Ezra
- Men’s Devotion - May 11, 2011
A Godly Man’s Worldview
- A Life-Changing Message (January 4, 2012)
- Pass It On To Our Children (October 12, 2011)
- A Godly Man’s Worldview (October 3, 2011)
Vocation (A Biblical View of Calling, Work, Purpose, etc.)
- What Is Your Purpose? Part 1 (May 23, 2012)
- Vocation: A Biblical View of Work (May 7, 2012)
- Men at Work Revisisted (March 30, 2012)
- Raising Children to be Entrepreneurs (October 14, 2011)
- Men at Work (October 7, 2011)
Directions for Young Christians (from Richard Baxter)
- Directions for Young Christians, Part 5 (January 16, 2012)
- Directions for Young Christians, Part 4 (January 8, 2012)
- Directions for Young Christians, Part 3 (January 5, 2012)
- Directions for Young Christians, Part 2 (December 21, 2011)
- Directions for Young Christians, Part 1 (December 19, 2011)
Some Thoughts on “Dad, the Family Shepherd”
- My Life for Yours: The Call of Men (January 15, 2012)
- Raising Children to be Entrepreneurs (October 14, 2011)
- Pass It On To Our Children (October 12, 2011)
- Our Life for Theirs: A Multi-Generational Vision (October 4, 2011)
- Tedder Top Ten: Fatherhood Websites (added June 19, 2011)
- I Love Being A Dad (added June 18, 2011)
- A Few Notes on Family Worship
- A Few More Notes on Family Worship
- Discipling Your Kids
- Passing the Baton to the Next Generation
- Raising Her Up in the Lord
- Shaping Culture for Christ
- The Legacy We Leave to Our Children
- Choose This Day
- The Shepherds are Few
- A Basic Key to the Universe: My Life for Yours
- Thoughts on a Covenant Home
- Thoughts on Reading to Your Children
- Pass It On: To Our Children and to Our Children’s Children
- Passing the Baton, Part 1 (from a sermon I preached in June, 2009)
- Passing the Baton, Part 2
- Passing the Baton, Part 3
- Covenantal Blessings
- The Value of a Family Dinner
- Great Bible Story Series for Your Kids
- Fathers Are Essential (Added April 8, 2011)
For Husbands
- Reforming Marriage (October 5, 2011)
- For Husbands: Communication
Fathers & Daughters
- You Want to Date My Daughter? (October 6, 2011)
Shepherding Sons
- From Boyhood to Manhood (October 5, 2011)
- Shepherding Sons (October 4, 2011)
- Future Men (My Introductory Thoughts)
Leadership
- Leadership Lessons from Tim Tebow (January 7, 2012)
- Leadership Lessons #1 (November 4, 2011)
- Who Is Your Paul, Timothy, and Barnabas? (October 31, 2011)
- Spiritual Leadership (October 10, 2011)
Witness
- Calling All Missions-Minded Men at Southside (December 20, 2011)
Books
- A Life-Changing Book (January 3, 2012)
- Man Alive by Pat Morley - Released soon (December 19, 2011)
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Links
Below are some great links to other ministries that are doing some wonderful things to help disciple men.
Devotions for Men
- All the Men in the Bible
- Devotions at Christianity.com
- Game Plan for Life
- Honor Bound Devotions
- Men of Integrity
- NIV Devotions for Men
Fatherhood
- All Pro Dad
- Christian Fathers.com
- Dad the Family Shepherd
- Family Man Ministries
- Fathers.com
- Great Dads
- National Fatherhood Initiative
- Savvy Dads
- Teacher Daddy
- The Father Factor
Men’s Ministries
- Band of Brothers
- Bible.org
- Bold Path
- CBMC
- Character That Counts
- Church for Men
- Crosswalk
- Disciple Men.com
- Discipleship Network of America
- Every Man Ministries
- Faithful and True Ministries
- Florida Men of Integrity
- Foundation of Manhood
- Iron Sharpens Iron
- Knights of the 21st Century
- Lifeway Men
- Live Bold
- Man in the Mirror
- Man to Man
- Men with a Purpose
- Men’s Fraternity
- Men’s Ministry Catalyst
- National Coalition of Ministries to Men
- New Man
- Noble Warriors
- Promise Keepers
- Pure Life Ministries
- Steve Farrar
- The Art of Manliness
- Third Option Men
- Top Gun Ministries
- United Methodist Men
Parenting
- Biblical Parenting
- Crosswalk
- Family Matters
- Family Minute
- Focus on the Family
- Homeschooling Today
- HomeWord
- John Rosemond
- Kyria
- Parenting
- Passionate Purposeful Parenting
- Raising Godly Children
- Raising Real Men
- Voddie Baucham
Marriage and Family
- American Family Association
- American Values.org
- Biblical Foundations
- Citizen Link
- Concerned Women for America
- Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood
- Faith and Family at Townhall
- Family Facts.org
- Family Research Council
- Family Scholars.org
- Manhattan Declaration
- National Marriage Project
- National Organization for Marriage
- Ruth Institute
- The Howard Center


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