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New Horizons takes Christian families seriously. They generally have at least one great article each month that I find helpful, (as a Christian father), to navigate my family in and through life with covenant faithfulness.

This issue that I’m highlighting is especially helpful. I encourage you to check out these articles. Read them. Digest them. Pray over them. Put them into practice. And share them with others.

Kids, Character, and Catechism by L. Charles Jackson

The Lost Art and Practice of Family Devotions by Brad Winsted

The Divines’ Intent by Sidney D. Dyer

Edification—not Provocation by Arie van Eyk

If you would like to search New Horizon’s great archive of past articles, click here.

Enjoy,
Dale

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Breakfasts and dinners are a lot of fun in our family (except when someone is communicating their feelings about a vegetable with a “protest-fast”). But we have a great time together. Breakfasts are usually when we have family worship together which I’ve written about elsewhere.

Our dinners are made up of discussions and even games.

 

How was your day? What did you to today? What did you learn…and tell us about it. What was your favorite thing you did today? We try to really express our interest in one another’s lives by sharing with the whole family at the same time. This will always be a staple of our dinner-time conversations. But my goal, when the kids get older, is to intensify the discussion topics.

 

We also play games. Sometimes we play “Stump Daddy,” which is when the kids break out the Bible trivia book and ask me the most obscure questions imaginable about the Bible. For some reason, they love to watch me crash and burn. We also have some “trivia” sorts of questions that I ask them. These usually allow for conversations about the questions. And if any of you ever saw “Scrooge” with Albert Finney, then you know what game I’m talking about when I say that we also play “The Minister’s Cat.” Trying to match capitals and states is also a big hit around here.

 

The best thing to come from our time together, of course, is that we are building relationships with one another. We laugh (most of the time). We share. It really is love-in-motion.

 

I came across a great and creative article today on the same subject by Eric Hogue, who has apparently really put some thought into this. I thought you and your family might benefit from it. (Click Here)

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The Family Table & Taking a TV Fast…Again
by Pastor Dale

This summer the Tedder household is unplugging…quite literally. Suzanne and I have decided to unplug the television sets in our home and go without the number one competition of our family’s togetherness…the TV. We have experimented a couple of times before with this idea (with varied amounts of success). I have described it here. And while we’re on the subject, here’s a very useful article about how the TV competes with a family’s time together.

Of course, the TV isn’t the only culprit stealing a family’s time together. A family in America today has 100 things each day that compete for that precious time. That’s why I believe it’s vital to carve out and protect “Sabbath times” for the family throughout the week. And you can hardly do better than meal times…be they breakfast, lunch, or dinner. (By the way, that’s meal times together as a family…around one table…without the TV on…without incoming phone calls interrupting every two minutes.)

There’s something powerful that happens when a family sits down to enjoy the fellowship of a meal together. Whether it is catching up on the day, having family worship, or just laughing together, the family table is a special place.

On that note, I have found three very helpful articles that speak to this issue of “the family table.” I hope they will serve to encourage you and your family to take time together in this wonderful way.

Blessings,
Pastor Dale

Here are a few interesting articles on fasting from the TV…

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