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I wrote the following post last year, but as I find myself reading Maxwell’s book again, I thought I would share this again. I mentioned yesterday that I was planning on having my two oldest children (15 and 13) read this book. Maxwell was once asked which of his books he would recommend for younger students and this was his top choice (if memory serves). At any rate, the fact that I find myself reading it year after year around New Year’s speaks volumes to me. I really have found it to be a “go to” resource.

By the way, I also just started reading The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy, which hits on similar themes, but is by no means the same book as Maxwell’s. I hope to soon share some key ideas that I learn from that book soon.

Hope you find it helpful,
Dale

Key Ideas from Chapter 1 of John Maxwell’s Today Matters

Everything underneath my signature below comes directly from Chapter 1 of Maxwell’s book, Today Matters. I read it seven years ago and picked it up again last week and started reading it.

It’s a powerful book that emphasizes the importance of making and then managing daily choices. I have said often that the hardest part about life or about parenting is that it’s so daily. It’s that daily faithfulness and consistency and intentionality and discipline that enables us to make incremental, yet positive changes in our lives. Conversely, it’s the lack of faithfulness, consistency, intentionality, and discipline that moves us, ever so slowly, in the wrong direction in our lives.

Maxwell’s book does an excellent job of highlighting the various spheres of  life and shows us how we can add value in our own lives and in the lives of others in those spheres. It’s not a hard read at all. In fact, it takes no time to read through a chapter. However, don’t be tempted to “read for speed.” Take your time and ponder the ideas that he shares (and the great illustrations and examples).

I don’t want to twist Joshua’s words at the end of the biblical book that bears his name, but there is a real sense in which we must “choose this day” whom or what we will serve. And while Joshua was declaring that he and his household would serve (worship, obey, follow) the one true God, I think we can certainly say that each day are we called to wake up and “choose this day” what road we will walk down. And then, the next day, we have to wake up and choose yet again… and then do it. We must be purposeful and intentional. We can’t just go with the flow. We can’t just let others decide who we will be and what we will do. We must live our own lives and that living begins with intentional choices.

Enjoy the following key ideas from Maxwell. They are worth thinking about.

Grace and Truth,
Dale

The way you live today impacts your tomorrow.

The problem is that we want the rewards of success without paying the price.

“You don’t win an Olympic gold medal with a few weeks of intensive training,” says Godin. “There’s no such thing as an overnight opera sensation. Great law firms or design companies don’t spring p overnight… Every great company, every great brand, and every great career has been built in exactly the same way bit by bit, step by step, little by little.”

The truth is that people who do nothing more than wait for an opportunity won’t be ready to capitalize on one if it does appear. As basketball legend John Wooden says,” When opportunity comes, it’s too late to prepare.” And for those who receive their wish – of a promotion, start-up money or anything else – it rarely changes anything in the long term if they haven’t already done all the groundwork to be successful.

…real, sustainable change doesn’t happen in a moment. It’s a process.

Growth comes from making decisions and following through on them.

People create success in their lives by focusing on today. It may sound trite, but today is the only time you have. It’s too late for yesterday. And you can’t depend on tomorrow. That’s why today matters.

“Yesterday Ended Last Night.” …no matter how badly I might have failed in the past, it’s done, and today is a new day.

Hoping for a good future without investing in today is like a farmer waiting for a crop without ever planting any seed.

Benjamin Franklin asserted, time is “the stuff life is made of.” Today is the only time we have within our grasp, yet many people let it slip through their fingers. They recognize neither today’s value nor its potential.

If we want to do something with our lives, then we must focus on today. That’s where tomorrow’s success lies.

Here’s the missing piece: The secret of your success is determined by your daily agenda.

It all comes down on what you do today. When I talk about your daily “agenda,” I don’t mean your to-do list. …I’m focusing on something bigger. I want you to embrace what may be a whole new approach to life.

Make the Decision Once… Then Manage It Daily

If you make decisions in those key areas once and for all – and then manage those decisions daily – you can create the kind of tomorrow you desire. Successful people make right decisions early and manage those decisions daily.

Benjamin Franklin rightly observed, “One today is worth two tomorrows what I am to be, I am now becoming.”

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I love Today Matters by John Maxwell. I hope to have two of my children read it in 2013. Good stuff for all of us to think about…especially as we approach that time of year when we think about changes we’d like to make in our lives. Here’s a good list from Maxwell at the beginning of his book…

from Today Matters by John Maxwell

Just for Today…

Just for today… I will choose and display the right attitudes.

Just for today… I will determine and act on important priorities.

Just for today… I will know and follow healthy guidelines.

Just for today… I will communicate with and care for my family.

Just for today… I will practice and develop good thinking.

Just for today… I will  make and keep proper commitments.

Just for today… I will earn and properly manage finances.

Just for today… I will deepen and live out my faith.

Just for today… I will initiate and invest in solid relationships.

Just for today… I will plan for and model generosity.

Just for today… I will embrace and practice good values.

Just for today… I will seek and experience improvements.

Just for today… I will act on these decisions and practice these disciplines, and

Then one day… I will see the compounding results of a day lived well.

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You are a leader. Do you believe that? It’s true. I have always liked John Maxwell’s definition of leadership from the first time I ever heard it. Leadership, he said, is influence… nothing more and nothing less. Therefore, whether you’re the CEO of a big corporation, a politician, a pastor, a teacher, a father – you name it – you are a leader. The question is: Are you leading well or poorly? Are you a good or not-so-good leader? How are you doing with this?

There are countless books available for those wanting to become strong and positive leaders in their various spheres of influence. But most of them do not approach the subject of leadership from a biblical perspective. That’s why I thought I would pick up Henry and Richard Blackaby’s book, Spiritual Leadership. I’ve read a couple of things by Henry Blackaby and have found him to be a trusted guide on similar topics.

I have only just begun this book, so I probably ought to withhold my verdict about it until I finish, but I thought you might be blessed by some of the following quotes that I have found so far. These are some great ideas for men of God to meditate upon.

Before I share the quotes with you, however, let me pass along this prayer for leaders that I found in the UMC Book of Worship…

Almighty God, pour out your blessings upon these your servants who have been given particular ministries in your church. Grant them grace to give themselves wholeheartedly in your service. Keep before them the example of our Lord, who did not think first of himself, but gave himself for us all. Let them share his ministry and consecration, that they may enter into his joy. Guide them in their work. Reward their faithfulness with the knowledge that through them your purposes are accomplished; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Blessings,
Dale

2 Chronicles 16:9a - For the eyes of the Lord range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him.

 ”Spiritual Leadership is not an occupation: it is a calling. Christian business people, physicians, educators, politicians, and parents – all ought to be spiritual leaders.”

“According to the Bible, God is not necessarily looking for leaders, at least not in the sense we generally think of leaders. He is looking for servants. When God finds men and women willing to be molded into his servants, the possibilities are limitless.”

“If anything can revolutionize today’s Christian leaders, it is when Christians understand God’s design for spiritual leaders.”

“People are desperate for leaders who can make positive changes in their lives!”

“According to George Barna, ‘the American church is dying due to a lack of strong leadership. In this time of unprecedented opportunity and plentiful resources, the church is actually losing influence. The primary reason is the lack of leadership. Nothing is more important than leadership.’”

“When the Israelites separated spiritual concerns from the political and economic issues, their nation was brought to its knees. Scripture indicates that it a mistake to separate the spiritual world from the secular world.”

“Every person, Christian and non-Christian alike, is a spiritual person with spiritual needs. Employees, customers, and governing boards all have spiritual needs that God wants to meet thought his servants in the workplace.”

“Jesus Christ is the Lord of all believers whether they are at church or at work. The kingdom of God is, in fact, the rule of god in every area of life, including the church, home, workplace, and neighborhood. To ignore these truths when entering the business world or political arena is to do so at one’s peril.”

“Society’s problem is more than just a lack of leaders. Society’s great deficit is that it does not have enough leaders who understand and practice Christian principles of leadership. Effective leaders are not enough. Hitler was an effective leader.”

“…one’s calling as a Christian not only takes precedence over his or her career; it actually gives direction to that career. Moreover, a Christian’s calling will give meaning to every area of life.”

“Spiritual leadership is not restricted to pastors and missionaries. It is the responsibility of all Christians whom God wants to use to make a difference in their world.”

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The Best of My Inbox…

for Mother’s Day

  • A Tribute to Our Mothers by Jerry Vines at Sermon Search.com
  • Here’s a great and funny list to celebrate Mother’s Day…
1. The later you stay up, the earlier your child will wake up the next morning.
2. The gooier the food, the more likely it is to end up on the carpet.
3. The longer it takes you to make a meal, the less your child will like it.
4. A sure way to get something done is to tell a child not to do it.
5. For a child to become clean, something else must become dirty.
6. Toys multiply to fill any space available.
7. Yours is always the only child who doesn’t behave.
8. If the shoe fits . . . it’s expensive.
9. Backing the car out of the driveway causes your child to have to go to the bathroom.

National Day of Prayer

  • What’s the big deal about the National Day of Prayer? Kyle Barthelson at the Manhattan Declaration offers an answer.

Parenting

The Persecuted Church

  • Pray specifically about our brothers and sisters in other lands that are being persecuted for following Jesus.

Theology and Doctrine

Christian Living

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I’m presently working on a post introducing a new feature on this blog: “Book Reviews.” But I thought while I was working on that, I’d recycle this post from my old blog that I wrote last August.

Cheers,
Dale

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I love to read… but I’m a slow reader. My wife can finish a book before I’m done with the Introduction.

I can’t find the link, but I once read an article of some sort where John Piper confessed that he was a slow reader as well (I’m not sure if Piper slow is the same thing as Tedder slow). At any rate, he was making the case that we ought to strive to read a little bit every day, and if we did, we would be surprised at how much reading we could accomplish over the course of a year, a decade, and a lifetime. (Donald Whitney throws out the challenge to read at least one page a day.)

I once heard Os Guinness say that it would be impossible to read everything that’s worth reading, which is why he recommends that folks read book reviews. Two great choices for book reviews, off the top of my head, would be WORLD Magazine and Books & Culture. I know there are a million other places to read great reviews, but those are two of my favorites.

The main reason for writing this post is to share a couple of websites that offer very fine book summaries. One is free… and the other will cost you a bit.

The first one (the free one) is ChristianBookSummaries.com. It offers summaries on a wide variety of Christian authors – from Richard Baxter to Francis Schaeffer to John Ortberg to G.K. Chesterton to St. Augustine. If you want to be introduced to a certain author or get the lowdown on a specific book before you read it… or if you want to opt for reading the summary instead of the whole book… then this is a good choice. (PS – I have read many of these summaries and they usually hit all the main points.)

The other book summaries service comes from Success Magazine. It has a price tag with it, but for those of you who are interested in personal development, leadership, etc., it looks good. I must confess that I only just learned about it, so I am not a subscriber, and therefore, can’t give you a personal account of it.

If any of you have any other recommendations, I would love to hear from you.

A few years ago I adopted a philosophy of reading that I learned from George Grant and John Maxwell. They both expressed the idea of living a lifestyle of reading. In other words, they essentially said, “always have a book with you.” Read when you’re at the doctor’s office. Read when you’re in the checkout line. Read, read, read – whenever and wherever.” I’ve gotten a lot of mileage from that way of thinking and putting it into practice. But having said that, there are other fine ways for pursuing lifelong learning, and these book summaries may be just the ticket for you.

SDG,
Dale

Updated August 30, 2009

I can’t believe I forgot Tim Challies over at Discerning Reader. He does an excellent job reviewing books. His webpage is a “must read.” Thanks to Richadelic for the reminder.

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I read John Maxwell’s, Today Matters, back in 2005 and thought it was time for another read. It’s a great book on personal development. I once heard Ken Boa say, in a discussion on spiritual formation, that who you want to be five years from now will come to pass (or not) based on who you  are right now and the spiritual disciplines you are practicing today. That’s Maxwell’s theme as well, only over a much broader terrain. It’s a very good book that I heartily recommend.

I’m presently reading John Stott’s commentary on The Sermon on the Mount. It is excellent. I’ve mentioned before that I’m currently teaching a Bible study on the same subject and virtually every other book on The Sermon that I’ve studied refers to Stott’s work. It’s a scholarly treatment, but not so much so that it’s unapproachable by folks in the pews. Click here to order it.

I’m also re-reading Becoming  A Coaching Leader. I mentioned earlier this week that I ordered Building Champions’  The Coaching Leader System, which is a video/audio/workbook study that will help to train me to coach others in the principles of the book (The author, Daniel Harkavy, focuses on what he calls CORE FOUR, which involves working through a person’s life plan, business plan, etc., and thereby helping folks become all that God has called them to be and all that they want to become). I’m excited to really immerse myself into this training. I read the book this past August, and am now digging into it again. Good stuff. Click here to learn more about this training system.

Happy Reading,
Dale

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