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fatherhood1Come join us for a brief excursion into fatherhood. Together we’ll take a look at a few of the key ideas and practices that can help every dad love and lead his children well.

We will meet right after our Wonderful Wednesday Fellowship Dinner (6pm – 7pm). Bring your family for dinner and stay for the study.

This is for any and all fathers, soon-to-be fathers, guys thinking-about-becoming fathers, and grandfathers. This study will last for six weeks (April 3rd – May 8th).

If you have any questions about this study, please contact me at 396-2676 or DaleTedder@yahoo.com.

Blessings,
Dale

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Shadow-Guy-ShruggingWhere do you look for direction, security, peace, purpose, confidence, and eternal life? With all of the competing voices in our culture, there’s a lot of confusion for men today. The world in which we live offers many options for where men might find such things. The Bible offers one: Jesus Christ.

Beginning the first week in April, our men’s discipleship ministry will start a new study entitled, I Am: Discovering Who Jesus Is. This 8-Lesson study will look at our basic needs from the perspective of the great “I AM” statements of Jesus, found in the Gospel of John.

Please come and join us for this new study. Not only will you get to know Jesus better, you will also have the opportunity to get to know other men who are on the same journey as you.

Starting Dates

  1. Monday, April 1st (7:00 – 8:30pm, Family Life Center)
  2. Wednesday, April 3rd (6:30 – 7:30am, Family Life Center)

If you have any questions about this new study or our men’s ministry, please don’t hesitate to call me at 396-2676 or email me at DaleTedder@yahoo.com.

Stand Firm,
Dale

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2CDAD2F9-2C64-4930-A0003C93CF40EA00What does it mean to be a man? How would you define it?

When does a boy become a man?

When he turns 18? When he starts driving? Graduates from school? Gets married? What answer would you give a boy to that question?

I’m very excited to announce that beginning this January,  we’re going to try to answer that question, as well as other questions related to it. Using the new curriculum, Stepping Up: A Call to Courageous Manhood, the men of our church and our community are going to discover what it means to become the man that God has called us to be. Here’s a clip…

In the twelve years of this ministry to men, I don’t think that I’ve ever been this excited over a new study. I believe that there is a great need for a rediscovery and renewal of godly manhood in our culture today. I pray that God will use this study to make a powerful impact in the lives of the men who gather each week to participate… and therefore, also impact their families, workplaces, communities, etc.

MAN16953Requirement to be a part of this study…

You are not required to be an expert on the Bible or Systematic Theology.

What you will need is the desire to become the man that God has called you to be… at home, at work, at church, in your community… and even alone. None of us has yet become that man, but that desire is a step up and a step in the right direction!

Here’s a little more about the study…

Many men find it difficult to identify acts of courage while slogging through the daily challenges of home, work, and community. Yet these are the very battlefields where courage is demanded of them every single day.

In this 10-session video series, Dennis Rainey calls men to boldly forge into courageous manhood. Stepping Up defines courage throughout the five stages of manhood and commissions men to honestly evaluate where they stand in their duties of masculinity. Rainey then prepares men to bravely master their life purpose by developing a strategic plan and establishing a winning vision.

You can master true leadership, develop a plan for your life and make a difference in your world.

(from the back of the study guide to Stepping Up.)

Our new study begins on Monday evening, January 7th (at 7pm in our Family Life Center)… or on Wednesday morning, January 9th, (at 6:30am, also in our FLC).

You do not have to be a member of our church (Southside United Methodist Church) to come and join us. This study is open to all of the men in our community. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to call me at 396-2676 or email me at D.Tedder@southsidemethodist.org.

Let’s pray that God will use this new study to help us STEP UP and STAND FIRM.

Blessings,
Dale

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with Kenny Luck at Every Man Ministries

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Since tomorrow is Father’s Day, I thought I would celebrate with all the dads out there and encourage them with some articles and videos on fatherhood… some new ones and some older ones that are well worth reading.

Happy Father’s Day,
Dale

1.) Fathers: Key to Their Children’s Faith by Michael Craven at Center for Christ and Culture

2.) Two Sermon Ideas for Father’s Day by Joe McKeever at Pastors.com

3.) Without Fathers, Who Knows Best? by Jeff Myers at Passing the Baton

4.) Courageous (movie about fatherhood)

5.) Ten Conclusions About the Power of a Husband and a Father by Brian Dodd

6.) Action Points for Fathers

7.) 40 Ways for Fathers to Make a Difference

8.) Superdad or Superdud: Which One Are You?

9.) The Council of Dads

10.) Dad’s Duct Tape from Bluefish TV

11.) Fatherhood Matters

12.) The Tragedy of America’s Disappearing Fathers

And the classic…….. Dad Life

And here are some things I’ve written with “dad the family shepherd” in mind…

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Men’s Midweek Encouragement
May 18, 2011

Good Morning Brothers,

I thought I would share with you this prayer from John Baillie followed by a few thoughts that I had about it…

Give me, O God, this day a strong and vivid sense that Thou are by my side. In multitude and solitude, in business and leisure, in my down-sitting and in my uprising, may I ever be aware of Thine accompanying presence. By Thy grace, O God, I will go nowhere this day where Thou canst not come, nor court any companionship that would rob me of Thine. By Thy grace I will let no thought enter my heart that might hinder my communion with Thee, nor let any word come from my mouth that is not meant for Thine ear. So shall my courage be firm and my heart be at peace. Amen.

Can you imagine what it might look like in our lives if God answered the petitions offered in that prayer?

  • To know and feel deeply that God is by your side – when you’re with family, friends, clients, or even strangers.
  •  To believe with all your heart that God is by your side – when you get up in the morning; as you drive to work; as you sit down for lunch or supper; as you turn on the computer when no one is around.
  • How would it change the way you spend your day to first ask yourself before every decision: Can the Lord come with me here? Can the Lord be a part of this thought I am having? Or can he take part in this conversation I am having? Or would God want to participate in this transaction that is taking place?
  • Will the pursuit of this interest, thought, conversation, etc., damage my fellowship with the Lord? Will it “rob me of my companionship with God?”
  • Our thought-life represents what’s going on in our hearts. Sin – whether it’s in thought, word, or deed – doesn’t just appear out of nowhere. It originates in our hearts. If I may paraphrase Baillie’s request to God: “Lord, please, by your grace, protect and defend me from any thought that would come into my heart and mind today that would become an obstacle in my ongoing communion and fellowship with you. Cleanse my heart O God. Purify me. Make me holy, as you are holy.” Do you need to pray for that today?
  • So too the mouth. James reminds us that with our tongue we can worship God and with that same tongue we can curse a person. How are you using your words? To build up? To wound and tear down? To justify and build yourself up? To lie? What if you asked that every word from your mouth had God as its intended target? How would that change the way you speak to others and/or about others?

Be encouraged brothers. All things are possible with God. You can live the life that he has called you to through the power of Christ’s Spirit who lives in you.

Don’t settle for mediocre Christian living today. Be the man that God has created, redeemed, called, and gifted you to be. That’s how you’ll be a blessing to your family, friends, coworkers, and community. That’s how you’ll glorify the Lord today.

The Lord bless you.

Grace and Truth,
Dale

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Where are you going?
How are you going to get there?
How will you know when you’re there?

Good Morning Brothers,

This past March I received a newsletter from Len Sykes. Len is a godly man who mentors, teaches, disciples, coaches, and leads men up in the Atlanta area. He’s also an associate with Ken Boa, the man who mentored me while I was in seminary. (While I’m thinking of it, you can learn more about Len or sign up for his newsletter by clicking here.)

In this particular newsletter, Len shared a little about his ministry. I’m always encouraged when he shares what he’s doing and what God is doing through him because it reminds me so much of my own ministry… and there’s so much I can learn from what Len shares.

Len talked a little about his passion, mission, and vision for his ministry. He commented that these are the three main areas that he encourages the men that he works with to focus on. The three questions that I listed at the top of this post are my version of what Len is talking about. These are important questions to ask because, as the old saying goes, ”If you don’t know where you’re going, then any road will get you there.” There are a lot of men who have no idea where they’re going… and their making great time getting there.

These issues of passion, mission, and vision are very important, in my opinion. I think most men want to live for something bigger than themselves. Part of their frustration is that they either don’t know what that something is… or they have an idea, but don’t know how to pursue it.

Passion. This is the “why” question. What drives you? Why do you get out of bed in the morning? Len says that passion is “the emotional/inspirational element of our desire. It’s that which energizes us.

What’s your passion? For yourself as a man of God? For your family? For you work setting? For your church? For your personal ministry? For your community? What’s that something that’s bigger than you that you want to live your life pursuing in each of these areas?

Mission. Len next points out that mission “relates to how we carry out our desires to serve the Lord and his people.” In other words, how are you going to fulfill your passion? How are you going to get there? What’s your plan?

Vision. This last component “relates to what the end result” of your passion and mission will look like. In other words, how will you know that you’ve fulfilled your mission (or that you’re making progress in the right direction)? Lots of aimless activity is not the same thing as moving toward your goal. Having a vision of what it will look like will help you focus and persevere as you move toward your goal…your dream of that something bigger than yourself.

My prayer is that each of you will not only have, but will also spend your life pursuing a passion, mission, and vision for who you are as a man of God – for your own spiritual growth, for yourselves as husbands, fathers, employees/employers, churchmen, neighbors, for every sphere of your lives. To be sure, this is a huge undertaking. But can you imagine anything more worthy of your time and energy?

My family’s life-verse is 1 Corinthians 10:31, which says, “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” From the extremely important to the utterly mundane, all of life is to be lived for God’s glory. This is the idea behind the phrase, “living life on purpose” or “living intentionally.”

Having a passion, a mission, and a vision will help you glorify God in all the spheres of your life. If I can help you discover, develop, and pursue your “something bigger than yourself,” please do not hesitate to let me know. It would be a joy, an honor, and a blessing to travel along side you as you seek and follow God’s call in your life.

Your Brother,
Dale

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