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Ephesians 5:15-17

Be very careful, then, how you live–not as unwise but as wise, [16] making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. [17] Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.

Scripture says that we are like vapors – here today and then… POOF…gone in an instant. Some of us may live to the national average or even past it. Others will not live that long. Whatever the case may be, Scripture affirms that “man knows not his time.” Therefore, since no one knows when he will be called home, doesn’t it make sense to make the most of each day – as though it was our last day? 

We are sometimes asked what we would do if we only had one week or one month to live. We generally give a sweet, sentimental, or even a profound answer that stresses the urgency of the hypothetical predicament about which we are being asked. And yet, so often, we never “live out” the answers that we give because we suppress the truth of reality and thus mistakenly believe that we have an infinite supply of time and opportunities waiting before us.

This is folly, unwise, and terribly unrealistic. It’s the very reason the apostle stressed what he did in our scripture.

Paul tells us immediately to be careful how we live. He says we need to be wise, not unwise, and that we need to make the most of every opportunity that comes our way. John Wesley and George Whitefield both called this “redeeming the time.”

It’s been calculated that the average person watches six years worth of television over the course of her lifetime – and four months tying her shoes. Do we really want to leave that kind of legacy to our children? Worse, do we really want to stand before our Lord one day and tell him that we buried our time and talents underneath the sofa cushion – right next to the crumbs of potato chips and lost change? That will hardly be the “first-fruits” of a life well lived.

Our very lives are a gift from God. We are to be stewards of them. In a real sense they are not our own. If we would offer ourselves as living sacrifices to God, then we must daily put ourselves back on the altar before him – to consecrate ourselves to him.

There is cost involved here to be sure. To give ourselves to the Lord in this way will require sacrifice, commitment, and self-discipline. To redeem the time we have been given, to make the most of every opportunity, we will need to work hard and replace some poor attitudes, ways of thinking, and habits with good ones.

Instead of listening to music in the car, (which is not inherently bad, by the way), we might listen to a sermon or instructional tape. Instead of sleeping in, we might get up a bit earlier and spend time with the Lord – in his Word and in prayer. Instead of watching TV all night, why not pick up a book that will build you up in the faith or help you improve your life in some way? Instead of filling your life with busy work, why not build relationships with family and friends? The list could on and on, but you get the point.

It’s been often said that no one, at the end of his life, looks back and says he should have spent more time in the office, or in front of the TV, or at the mall, etc. These things are not necessarily worthless, but they are fleeting.

Why not redeem the time that you have been given by using it wisely? Why not make the most of every opportunity God will give you today… and tomorrow? Our lives are short enough already. Let’s not fill them with trinkets when we have the opportunity to offer the Lord the sweet scent of a pleasing sacrifice.

Grace and Truth,
Dale

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A dear sister in Christ told me about the following poem this past Lord’s Day evening at Bible study. I love it. It reminded me of some things I shared in the first two posts of this blog’s existence (You can read those here: Renovate Your Life by Waking Up Early, Part 1 and Renovate Your Life by Waking Up Early, Part 2)

Enjoy,
Dale

I Met God in the Morning
by Ralph Cushman

I met God in the morning
When my day was at its best,
And His Presence came like sunrise
Like a glory in my breast.

All day long the Presence lingered,
All day long He stayed with me,
And we sailed in perfect calmness
O’er a very troubled sea.
 

Other ships were blown and battered,
Other ships were sore distressed,
But the winds that seemed to drive them
Brought to us a peace and rest.

Then I thought of other mornings,
With a keen remorse of mind,
When I, too, had loosed the moorings
With the Presence left behind.

So I think I know the secret,
Learned from many a troubled way;
You must seek Him in the morning
If you want Him through the day.
 

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Scripture and questions to help you on your pilgrimage to the Celestial City and to help you look more like the King of that City.

Deuteronomy 26:17-19

    You have declared this day that the Lord is your God and that you will walk in his ways, that you will keep his decrees, commands and laws, and that you will obey him. [18] And the Lord has declared this day that you are his people, his treasured possession as he promised, and that you are to keep all his commands. [19] He has declared that he will set you in praise, fame and honor high above all the nations he has made and that you will be a people holy to the Lord your God, as he promised.

Question: Have you declared this day that the Lord is your God and that you will walk in all his ways? If not… why not? What’s getting in the way of you making that declaration?

Matthew 14:27-33

    But Jesus immediately said to them: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”
[28] “Lord, if it’s you,” Peter replied, “tell me to come to you on the water.”
[29] “Come,” he said.
Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. [30] But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, “Lord, save me!”
[31] Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. “You of little faith,” he said, “why did you doubt?”
[32] And when they climbed into the boat, the wind died down. [33] Then those who were in the boat worshiped him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God.”

Question: What has Jesus called you to do to serve him that will require you to get out of your comfort zone?

Question: In what area of your life do you need to trust God more? How are you planning to do that (what steps will you take)?

Question: What present storm are you experiencing that will calm as soon as you trust God and begin to worship him and recognize him for who he truly is?

2 Thessalonians 3:5 -

May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.

Question: Are you prayerfully and intentionally seeking the Lord’s direction for your life? If not… why not?

Question: Are you walking in the beauty and power of God’s love? If not… why not?

Question: Are you persevering in your pilgrimage with Christ, trusting and obeying him in the midst of the valleys as well as the mountain tops (and all points in-between)?

Question: Is there any place you want to give up? How can you keep moving forward with Christ? What’s your plan?

And these two great questions I got from Oswald Chambers this morning…

  • Is Jesus Christ more and more dominating every interest in my life?
  • Am I taking time to abide in Christ?

For the Pilgrim’s Progress,
Dale

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The first two posts on this blog were on January 4th & 5th of this year and dealt with the subject of renovating your life by waking up early (please click here and here to read them). I won’t repeat what I’ve already written.

I watched the following video by Robin Sharma today on how to get up early. He’s got some good ideas (especially the one on getting a weekly massage).

This got me wondering: How many other things on the web are there for helping a person get up early (as well as offering reasons for doing so). The answer: Waaaaay too many to include here. But here are some that I thought were worth looking at (with only a cursory first glance by me… so buyer beware).

Do you know of other good articles on this topic. Let me know.

Blessings,
Dale

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I’ve had the privilege of occasionally being asked to review a book on my blog. Now, I don’t for a second think that’s because I’m so insightful. I know that it has much more to do with exposure for the book. But that’s okay; it’s still nice to be asked and I enjoy the opportunity.

I have, on many occasions, used this blog to share the great ideas that I’ve learned from the books I read. I believe I’ve been positively shaped and molded by many of them. As is usually the case, I generally review the books that I really like or have been particularly blessed by (though I may dare to venture out on this front).  It’s always an added treat when the author of the book takes the time to connect with me and thank me for my efforts. (I don’t write the reviews for that reason, but, again, it’s a nice treat.)

Interestingly, my reviews are often my most popular posts. I think that’s because many of us like to check out what others thought about a book before we decide to invest the time and money in the book ourselves. Or, as I stated in an earlier post on book summaries, we get what we need from a book out of the review itself. And besides, we can’t read everything that’s out there.

I’ve been fairly generous so far by calling my posts about books “reviews.” They are certainly not critical reviews because, as I said, I’m usually writing about a book I really like. Thus, I guess you could say that they are more like “advertisements”  for the books. I’m clearly hoping that my efforts will encourage folks to read them. (But, as I said, I may soon be including some books that I don’t necessarily agree with.)

Also, because it’s my blog, my “reviews” are different in that I don’t have to review the whole book at once. I’m not sure I’m smart enough to do that anyway. Instead, I enjoy studying the book chapter by chapter, really digging into it and seeing what’s there (or what’s not there), thinking about it, and then commenting on it. My “book reviews” should probably more appropriately be called “chapter reports.”

Over the years I’ve discovered various resources that have really helped me get all I can out of a book. I haven’t perfected the art, but I’ve grown a great deal. I know that I don’t apply everything I’ve learned, but I have been able to put together a few things that make up an outlined agenda of sorts. This outline of questions, thoughts, etc., helps me absorb more of what I’m reading than I would without it. It also helps me as I share what I’ve read with others, whether I’m writing about it, teaching it, or simply talking about it with someone over lunch.

At any rate, I thought it might be helpful to officially make book reviews a new feature here at Renovate Your Life. Ideas have consequences, both intellectually and practically. I know from experience how God can use a book to renew a mind and transform a life (that’s renovation). It’s my sincerest prayer that these little reviews will be a blessing to those who read them, and will hopefully lead the reader to the books to which they point.

Happy Reading,
Dale

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I’m pleased and delighted to announce that today I became a Lifetime Member of Weight Watchers. Whew… I made it through the six-week “maintenance” period. It’s been about an eight-and-a-half month journey, but one I’m glad I started and stuck with. Now, as I’ve said before, all I have to do is keep it up the rest of my life.

I’ve done a great deal of reflecting throughout this pursuit. I’ve noticed how many parallels there are between Weight Watchers and the Christian life. I hope down the road to share some of the insights I’ve learned along the way. However, I did want to share what I think the biggest “aha” for me was/is.

What’s so interesting to me about this “aha” experience is that this is the very idea that I routinely share with the Bible study classes I teach, the people I counsel, etc. And yet, it seems that I wasn’t making the connection with this part of my life. What I have come to understand is that I can’t look at the pursuit of weight loss in exclusive terms of behavior modification. Because if I do, then as soon as things get tough, I’ll revert back to some pretty unhealthy habits.

Instead, a renovation of my heart and mind regarding health, food, lifestyle, etc., had to take place. If I didn’t change the way I was thinking about these things, then any weight loss that I might experience would be superficial and temporary at best. I had to change from the inside out. This is true for any meaningful change in our lives. If all we’re trying to change is outward behavior, then we’re in for a rollercoaster ride. But when we renew our minds first, our actions are better grounded… the roots are deeper.

Now, to be sure, sometimes we need to simply practice right actions and our feelings will adjust accordingly. But the root of it all has to be a change of thinking… a real renovation of our heart and mind. Only then, I believe, will we discover change that will last.

That leads me to this thought: If I looked at this as merely another diet to be on, then that would mean that I’m now off of my diet. Instead, as cliché as it sounds, I will continue along the path of a far healthier lifestyle that has its roots in new ways of thinking and understanding.

And so I’m officially a lifetime member of Weight Watchers. I’m grateful, of course,  to God who sustained me throughout this time. I’m also thankful to my wife Suzanne and to my WW leader, Norma, for their encouragement and help.

Yahoooo,
Dale

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How can we live the risen life, according to Paul?

1.) The first thing you do, according to Paul, is to

“set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God.” (v. 1b)

What does that mean? Well, the actual phrase, “set your hearts on things above,” could be interpreted as, “keep seeking the things above.” This language communicates to us a continuous action. It’s not something we try once and then we’re done. In other words, it needs to be a habitual pattern in our lives as followers of Christ. We should strive to look more and more like Jesus with every passing day.

Paul is basically telling us to be passionately consumed with the things of God… the things of heaven. We need to continually pursue an eternal perspective in everything we say, do and think. We need to pursue the beliefs, values, and practices that characterize the Lord Jesus.

There’s an old saying that goes like this: “Don’t be so heavenly-minded that you’re no earthly good.” It seems that some folks think about heaven so much that they sort of opt out of living here on earth. They don’t engage this life. They don’t try. They’re sort of just waiting to die so they can go to heaven.

But Paul reverses that idea. To paraphrase Paul, we should be so heavenly-minded that we can’t help but be of earthly good. Who was more earthly good than the Lord Jesus himself? He doesn’t just talk about eternal life after we die, but abundant life that begins now.

Paul follows that command with these words in verse 2…

“Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.”

 Now, that may sound like a contradiction of what I just said, but it’s not. Paul is not saying that we should ignore living here on earth. Instead, the “earthly things” he’s referring to are the broken, fallen, and sinful patterns of living that the world practices and embraces. It’s the values the world holds dear. That’s NOT the sort of stuff we’re to think about. Instead, Paul tells us to “set our minds on things above.” I can’t summarize what he means here any better than John MacArthur. Listen to this…

“Set your mind”… could simply be translated, ‘think,’ or more thoroughly, ‘have this inner disposition.’ …the tense indicates continuous action. … ‘You must not only seek haven, you must also think heaven.’ …The believer’s whole disposition should orient itself toward heaven, where Christ is, just as a compass needle orients itself toward the north.”

 “Such heavenly values dominating the mind produce godly behavior.” (MacArthur, Commentary on Colossians and Philemon, p. 129)

 That’s what we’re call to continuously pursue and think about. But it’s hard to live that sort of life and to think that way all the time, isn’t it?

Next time we’ll look at the differences between the Biblical Christian that Paul is describing in our text versus what’s been described as a Cultural Christian.

Blessings,
Dale

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